Silat, I find this art takes some time in it before the individual begins to appreciate what it brings to the table as a martial art.
There is an old saying that goes,"silat chooses you,you don't choose silat", I find this to be so very true.In my time I have seen many a folks jump into the Mande Muda style,but the demands of the training later become to much or lead to the student moving on or giving up on the art.
The first month or so in the art I was about to give up as well,but I am so very glad that this was not my choice.It would of been a great dis-service to myself if I gave up like I wanted to do so.
The rewards of the style do take some time to appreciate,but they are well worth the wait and then some.
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